Should I tell my story? Here is a bit

I am a person who has faced and continues to face many challenges in my life, but I never let them defeat me. Approximately 10 years ago, I was diagnosed with a metabolic bone disorder, which has caused 11 compression fractures in my spine. This disorder has greatly impacted my life, but I have never let it hold me back. I have always been determined to live a full and meaningful life despite my physical limitations. More recently, I underwent cancer surgery, but my determination and positive attitude remain unchanged.

An interesting fact about me is that in 1993, I was struck by lightning while visiting Disney World. It was definitely not part of the plan but it ended up being a funny story. Despite this event, I have never let it defeat me and it has become one of the many obstacles that I have overcome.

I like to think I am a kind and caring person who always puts others before myself. I have a contagious smile and a positive attitude that inspires those around me. I always tell folks I am "just happy to be here". I am known for my unwavering determination and resilience in the face of adversity. I am someone who always looks for the silver lining in any situation and that has helped me to maintain a positive attitude throughout my life.

Despite my physical challenges, my passion for life is evident in everything I do. I have a strong interest in reading and enjoy immersing myself in different worlds and perspectives. Reading has been my escape from reality and it has helped me to gain a new perspective on life. It has also given me the opportunity to learn new things and expand my knowledge. I also love spending time with my family and friends and cherish the memories made with them. They have been my rock and have been by my side throughout my journey.

My recent cancer surgery was a setback, but I still continue to fight and overcome my challenges. I am an inspiration to those who know me and my legacy continues to live on through my determination and positive attitude. I have been through a lot, but I have never given up and that is something that I am proud of.

Now, some ten years later, I am reviving my blog as a journey of updates on stories and events. I have many hurdles yet to conquer and I want to share my journey with others, in the hope to inspire them to never give up on their own dreams and aspirations. My blog will be a place where I can share my experiences and where others can relate to my struggles and triumphs.

My blog will be a journey of progress and not perfection. I believe that sharing my journey, will help others to see that despite the obstacles that come our way, it is possible to overcome them.

I hope that my blog will be a source of inspiration and encouragement to those who are going through similar struggles. My journey is not over yet, I still have many hurdles to conquer, but I am determined to never give up.

As with everyone, the pandemic has drastically changed my life. The isolation has been awful for me as for many others. Where we go from here is up to us all...

I guess i will leave it there for now and add more in future posts...cheers

"It's probably me"

If the night turned cold and the stars looked down

And you hug yourself on the cold cold ground

You wake the morning in a stranger's coat

No one would you see

You ask yourself, who'd watch for me?

My only friend, who could it be?

It's hard to say it, I hate to say it, but it's probably me

When your belly's empty and the hunger's so real

And you're too proud to beg and too dumb to steal

You search the city for your only friend

No one would you see

You ask yourself, who'd watch for me?

A solitary voice to speak out and set me free

I hate to say it, I hate to say it, but it's probably me

You're not the easiest person I ever got to know

And it's hard for us both to let our feelings show

Some would say I should let you go your way

You'll only make me cry

But if there's one guy, just one guy

Who'd lay down his life for you and die

I hate to say it, I hate to say it, but it's probably me

When the world's gone crazy and it makes no sense

And there's only one voice that comes to your defense

The jury's out and your eyes search the room

And one friendly face is all you need to see

Personal Safety devices and you. What to know and what to use. Begin this year by protecting yourself and your loved ones.

What are personal saftey devices? 

 Personal safety devices are devices or tools that are designed to help keep people safe in potentially dangerous or hazardous situations. They can be used to protect against physical threats, such as attacks or accidents, or against environmental threats, such as extreme temperatures or natural disasters. Examples of personal safety devices include safety alarms, personal alarms, pepper spray, and self-defense tools such as stun guns or Tasers. 

Personal safety devices can be carried on a person's person or kept in a nearby location for easy access in an emergency. Different countries have different laws and regulations regarding the use and possession of personal safety devices. Some countries may ban certain types of personal safety devices, while others may have restrictions on their use or possession. 

For example: In the United States, some states have laws regulating the use or possession of certain personal safety devices, such as pepper spray or stun guns. In some cases, these devices may only be legal to use or possess if the user has a valid permit. 

 In Canada, pepper spray is classified as a restricted weapon and is regulated under the country's firearms laws. Possession of pepper spray is generally only allowed for individuals who have a valid reason for needing it, such as law enforcement officers or individuals working in a high-risk occupation. 

 In the United Kingdom, possession of a personal safety device such as pepper spray or a stun gun is illegal. It is also illegal to carry any object that could be used as a weapon, such as a baseball bat or a hammer, with the intention of using it to defend oneself. 

 It is important to be aware of the laws and regulations regarding personal safety devices in your country or location. 

 With that said,lets take a look at some types... 

 1. Personal Safety Alarm 

 There are many different types of personal safety alarms on the market, and the best one for you will depend on your specific needs and preferences. Some things to consider when choosing a personal safety alarm include:

• Type of alarm: Personal safety alarms can take the form of a loud, handheld device that can be activated manually, or they can be integrated into other personal safety devices such as a bracelet or keychain. Some alarms also have a panic button that can be pressed to quickly call for help. Volume: Make sure the personal safety alarm you choose is loud enough to be heard by others in the area. The louder the alarm, the more likely it is to attract attention and help. 
• Battery life: Consider the battery life of the personal safety alarm you choose. If you plan on using it frequently or in emergency situations, you'll want a device with a long battery life. 
• Ease of use: Choose a personal safety alarm that is easy to activate and use in an emergency situation. You want something that can be activated quickly and without confusion. 
• Size and portability: Consider the size and portability of the personal safety alarm. If you plan on carrying it with you at all times, you'll want something that is small and easy to carry. 
• Price: Determine your budget and look for a personal safety alarm that fits within it.

Considering these suggestions the best suggestion available on Amazon worldwide seems to be the 

KOSIN 3 Pack 145DB Personal Security Alarm Keychain.

2. Pepper Spray

There are many different brands and types of pepper spray available on the market, and the best one for you will depend on your specific needs and preferences. Some things to consider when choosing pepper spray include:

• Strength: Pepper spray is rated in terms of its concentration of capsaicin, the active ingredient that causes the burning sensation. Higher concentrations are generally more effective, but they may also be more painful and potentially harmful. Consider the level of protection you need and choose a pepper spray with an appropriate concentration.
• Spray pattern: Pepper spray can be dispersed in a number of different patterns, including a stream, a cone, or a mist. Consider the type of spray pattern that will be most effective for your needs.
• Size and portability: Consider the size and portability of the pepper spray. If you plan on carrying it with you at all times, you'll want something that is small and easy to carry.
• Price: Determine your budget and look for pepper spray that fits within it.
• Legal restrictions: Be aware of any legal restrictions on the possession and use of pepper spray in your country or location. In some places, pepper spray may be illegal or may only be legal to use or possess with a valid permit.

It is important to familiarize yourself with the proper use and handling of pepper spray before using it. You may also find that if normal security pepper spray is unavailable in your area a quick search for a spray deterrant directed at an animal may be easier to find. Something like...

3. Self defence tools (physical)

There are many different types of self-defense tools that are portable and can be easily carried with you. Some examples of portable self-defense tools include:

• Stun gun: A stun gun is a handheld device that delivers an electrical shock to an attacker, causing temporary paralysis and incapacitation. Stun guns are small and portable, and can be carried in a purse, pocket, or on a keychain.
• Tactical pen: A tactical pen is a writing instrument that can also be used as a self-defense tool. It can be used to strike an attacker or to defend against an attack with its pointed end. Tactical pens are small and portable, and can be carried in a purse, pocket, or on a keychain.
• Keychain self-defense tools: There are also a number of self-defense tools that can be attached to a keychain, such as kubotans or self-defense keychains. These tools are small and portable, and can be easily carried on a keychain.
• Tatical Safety (Police) batons: An expandable baton (also referred to variously as a collapsible baton, telescopic baton, tactical baton, spring cosh, ASP, or extendable) is typically composed of a cylindrical outer shaft containing telescoping inner shafts (typically 2 or 3, depending on the design) that lock into each other when expanded. The shafts are usually made of steel, but lightweight baton models may have their shafts made from other materials such as aluminium alloy.

It is important to familiarize yourself with the proper use and handling of any self-defense tool before using it as well as the legality in your country.

STUN GUNS AND TASERS ARE NOT COVERED IN THIS ARTICLE. PLEASE REFER TO THE LAWS AND PRODUCT AVAILABILITY IN YOUR AREA. 😀